It’s Not Over Till It’s Over?
I’m going to rewrite that as, “It’s over when I say it is.” This is about breaking up, and although I’m not in the midst of one, it’s never easy, but it doesn’t have to be hard either.
Thank goodness I’m not in the dating scene anymore, but I can see and hear that things haven’t changed; only the players have. No pun intended with that “players” remark. When I was still dating, the term players wasn’t even used. We just came out and called them a cheating son of a bitch and left it at that. Works, right?
Even so, what if he wasn’t a cheat, but was a liar? Is there that much of a difference? Here’s the way it see it: Who wants to work at a relationship? Whenever I hear the statement, “Relationships take work. Sometimes hard work.” I have to laugh. If you’re working, then get out! Is it hard work to love someone? Nope. I didn’t ask if it was hard work to love someone who is not well, we’re talking a regular Joe. And if it takes work to love Mr. Regular Joe, than quit that job and get a new one. But first, take a breather and go on a Me Vacation to take care of yourself. Get pampered. Get right.
Don’t bounce into something new right away, and don’t go out looking to just look. Take care of yourself for a bit. How long’s a bit? I’d say at least a couple of months, but you’ll know. Just like you’ll know it’s over when it’s over.
comments
Leave a Reply